10月8日就签了，今天终于有时间把这不可思议的事实告诉各位签友。以鼓励在这条道路上一直努力的同胞们。

比起各位来我真的只能算是小辈了，从准备去美国读书到签出共7个多月（准备托福，申请，签证）。还有我的条件在所有人看来都太弱：托福成绩菜，不是牛校，在读大三，转学转专业。出乎意料的是我竟然1000过了。

先是把那天的形式讲讲，f-1的人很少，只看到一个：master,已经转战几地了，一上去就听vo说’so many times’,’beijing’，虽然耗时较长但还是过了。签过的人比我想象的多，常常看签经已经非常受得了打击了，作好了签不过的打算，在windowA交资料的时候，窗内的工作人员一看到f-1就问准备签几次，我回答一次，又问准备签出还是签不出，答签不出，惊讶”那为什么还来呀“，吾曰完成任务来了，于是就把138号递给我”去完成你的任务吧“（引起一片笑声）。

事先把50问根据自己的情况适当增减，稍做准备，但最后没怎么用上，对话才2分钟不到。因为太兴奋问答不能原本的呈现给大家，见谅。

一上去，就把收据塞给我
me:morning, sir.
vo:hi, why go to USA?
me:my company wants me to
vo:your company?
me:yes. my professor introduce me to the company, they want one or two students go there for studying. so i signed the contract with them. they will pay the half, and i must work for them for five years.(把合同递给他，翻了一下，没看）
vo: so what’s your aspect in your master’s (interrupted by me)
me:no. i’m studying for my bachelor’s degree. coz they thought bachelor’s is enough for the job. you know masters always ask for higher salary.
vo:you will need four years?
me:no. much shorter. actually i’m studying in xxx for two years, and the school there admit my credits here. so i need only two years.(奇怪的是没问我要学校的证明）
vo: (nods) so what about the other costs? you wrote ’family and company’.
（on the DS-156)
me:yes. i think it’s not a big money for my family.(把我的存款证明给他）
vo: (suprised) really? what do your parents do?
me: well, my mother was a business woman during the beginning of chinese opening.
vo: your english is not good, (point at the I-20）it said you have to take a special course.
me: to tell you the trueth, my toefl score is xxx. i only need three point to meet with the needed score. so my school promised me that i don’t need to take it, if i can take the toefl test one more time and got a better one.
vo:so i don’t think your english is enough for your study in US, so this time balabala... i won’t balabala...
me:would you please write down the titles, so i can prepare it for the next time.(以为要拒我了，但当时真的没有急，很平稳的语气）
vo:nono,到C窗口去拿你的签证。
转身就跑，把资料都撒了。拣起来后，急忙转身‘thank you. have a nice day.’当我向在坐的同志们，作了ok的手势后，羡慕的、惊讶的……（在我之前相当长的时间里没有一个签出）。

要特别感谢使馆外排在我后面的blackman（B）帮我找回了自信（B:hi, how are you? Me:fine, but a bit nervous. B:oh, why do you want to go into. you don’t have to go. Me: Why? B:coz you don’t have confidence. you don’t believe youself. you must believe in youself. Me:yes, thank you.) 对话后我一点也不紧张了，而且事先也让我的口语热了热身，心里更塌实了。还有在住宿时碰到的同乡，不知你一切是否顺利。
前辈们的签经help me a lot, 所以事先就想无论签出与否，都要把经过告诉大家，希望能有所帮助。

几点建议：
1。看签经要变通，不要把一些答案固定化，在合理的同时最好有新异，vo每天听得多了，反而会怀疑真实性。
2。一定要自信呀，有了自信就不会紧张，听力和口语自然正常了。理由也有说服力，首先要说服自己，在心里默念“我一定会回国，一定会”。
3。要诚实，我把别人认为要避免的内容直接告诉他，他不但没难我，反而更相信我。（出了我的存款证明，其他材料他都没要没看）
4。衣服不用太讲究，有学生的真实性好。（特指F-1的，年龄较小的，本人21岁）

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作者:crystal_x

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